2.5 Leading Disagreeable People

Leading Disagreeable People at PRETECT
Every team has people who are blunt, skeptical, or less concerned about being liked. At PRETECT, these team members can be challenging to lead — but they’re also valuable when managed well.

What they’re like: Disagreeable people are direct, critical, and often suspicious of easy answers. They speak up when they disagree and can come across as abrasive. That bluntness isn’t always negative — it’s often a source of honest risk-spotting and tough-minded decision-making.

How to lead them

  • Manage expectations. Persuading someone lower in agreeableness takes more time, data, and emotional energy. Don’t take bluntness personally — plan for longer, evidence-based conversations.
  • Use objective evidence. Present clear facts, verified data, and concrete outcomes. Disagreeable team members respond better to logic than to appeals to harmony.
  • Place them where their style is an asset. They do well in roles that need firmness or critical thinking — negotiations, contract reviews, HSE/root-cause analysis, or in technical reviews (NDT, inspections, or vendor disputes).
  • Set communication norms. Warn teams when someone is playing the critical role so feedback isn’t taken personally. Encourage respectful delivery: blunt is okay, hostile is not.
  • Coach on influence. Help them translate critical points into constructive recommendations. Small coaching interventions on tone and timing increase their impact and reduce friction.
  • Channel strengths into team wins. Use their ability to spot flaws to improve safety, quality, or contract terms — and recognize their contributions when they protect the team or company.

With structure, clear evidence, and the right role, disagreeable people become powerful assets to PRETECT’s operational excellence.